It is clear that my 9 year old is growing into his manhood..his maschismo..he is getting his swagger. This is evidenced by his love of skinny jeans and the way he transforms into this adolescent with confidence when he puts them on. It's the most interesting thing to see. Just the other day, it seems, he was holding my hand and wanting to sit on my lap and sleep in my bed (still wants that). But now he is practicing all the latest dance steps..the jerk, the moon walk. He is rapping along with the profanity edited Jay Z album. In other words, he is cool. Imagine that...my Yums, Cool....