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As women we sometimes suffer from bouts of anxiety. It may be due to hormonal shifts, unresolved issues or major work or life events. Anxiety can at times feel crippling but it's important to remember that it's not! Breathe in peace and breathe out the source of your tension...


3 Ways to Reduce Anxiety
Reviewed By: Steven A. King, M.D.
Everyone has felt it at one time or another: You get nervous before a speech or a big test, and your palms begin to sweat. Or, perhaps you just feel a general unease about your health, finances or family life.
A sense of uneasiness about the future is generally known as anxiety. These feelings affect both the body and the mind. When you become anxious, your body releases a hormone called adrenaline. It is nature's way of warning you that danger (both real and imagined) is imminent.
As anxiety increases, you may experience symptoms such as a pounding heart, quickened breathing and perspiration. The more you worry about something, the stronger these symptoms are likely to become.
Many people experience mild to moderate episodes of anxiety. For some, such nervousness may interfere with their ability to enjoy life fully. However, there are steps you can take to reduce or even eliminate your anxious feelings.
Three-Step Solution
There are many ways to reduce anxiety. Three of the most effective are:
Set aside a time to worry. Do you find yourself fretting about things periodically throughout the day? If so, you are probably living with a constant and unhealthy low-level hum of anxiety.To fix this problem, set aside a period of each day where you do nothing but worry. Think about the issues you face and potential solutions for up to 30 minutes. After the time has expired, make a vow not to think about your problem again until your anxiety time the following day.
Confront subjects that have triggered past bouts of anxiety. Your anxiety level is particularly likely to spike prior to situations that have provoked angst in the past. If you broke out in a cold sweat and stuttered during your last PowerPoint presentation, odds are good that the butterflies will awaken in your stomach shortly before the next go-round.Prior to an anxiety-provoking event, try to visualize yourself in the situation. If this makes you feel anxious, try a relaxation technique to see if this calms your feelings. Later, when the real-life situation makes you nervous, try these techniques again and see if they have a calming effect.Also, prepare yourself as much as possible prior to the event. You are much less likely to feel anxious if you are confident and in control of your situation. For example, someone who studies diligently before a test is much less likely to experience exam-related anxiety than a peer who tries to cram in all preparation the night before the test.
Take care of your body and mind. One of the best ways to prevent anxiety is to take care of yourself. Numerous studies show that physically fit, well-rested and contented people are less likely to be vulnerable to bouts of anxiety.For example, people who maintain close relationships have a network of support that makes them less vulnerable to anxiety. Taking the time to enjoy life and to engage in hobbies you enjoy helps reduce levels of both stress and anxiety.Relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, can also help. In this exercise, you lie down on a flat surface. Place one hand on your stomach above the navel, and the other hand on your chest. Breathe in slowly until the stomach rises a bit and hold your breath for a second. Then, exhale slowly.Muscle relaxation, in which you tense and relax your muscles one by one, is also used by some to reduce anxiety. Some people benefit from yoga or meditation.Studies show that regular exercise is one of the best ways to ward off anxiety and to build a stronger sense of well-being. It's also important to avoid overindulging in unhealthy foods, and to avoid abuse of alcohol, drugs (both legal and illegal) and stimulants such as caffeine.Finally, be sure to get plenty of rest. A full night's sleep relaxes both body and mind and makes you less susceptible to anxious thoughts.
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After almost 36 years in my body I have finally accepted my girly girlness. I love it actually. I love butterflies, pink, eyelet dresses and lace lingerie. I will cry at anyone's wedding. I will cry right before my period, during my period and any of the 28 days days in between. I adore picnics any time of the year and anywhere imaginable. I crave bubble baths. I love almost any type of flower with a preference for sunflowers, orchids, tulips, cala lillies and gerber daisies. I love anything romantic including candlelit dinners, breakfast in bed, balloons, cards for no reason, love notes ("i like you, do you like me, check yes, no or maybe"). I love foot rubs and being told I'm pretty. I love being a girly girl. And for the longest time I thought that made me weaker somehow in comparison to what I perceived as "strong women." I know now that not inspite of but because I am a girly girl I am strong.
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Spring break with the kids.....yums and my bf's two...we call them the Sky team. Children make life fun. Despite the attitudes, the "how comes" and "where are we going" we had a dynamic day! Children help you remember that life is fun; life is innocent; we can still play at the park, eat icecream and do nothing but think of things to do next. And having children that aren't yours biologically helps one to remember to be sensitive and compassionate. Being with them helps me to remember that as much as I wonder if they will love me automatically, they wonder the same thing. Does "she" like me? Does "she like me just cause of my dad?" I realized today that I do like them. I do love them and I am grateful for them all.
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It is not enough just to visualize a goal for a few minutes, and then let doubts and disbelief fill your mind for the rest of the day.
It is not enough just to visualize a few times, and then wait for miracles to happen.
You need to have a strong desire and motivation, and the commitment to do whatever is necessary to achieve your goal.
You need persistence, concentration, the ability to visualize, and at least some degree of self-discipline.
You need to learn to recognize opportunity when it appears, and to be willing and ready to take and use this opportunity.
You need to be willing to act and take the required steps whenever needed, and not just wait for your desires to materialize from thin air or suddenly drop on you from the sky.
In order to take full advantage of the law of attraction you need to know certain rules and follow them. It is true, some people achieve great success, without knowing much or anything about it, but they intuitively use it correctly.
The law of attraction is not a method for getting rich quickly, without doing anything. It requires mental work, focus and visualization, and also the willingness to follow the mental work with any required actions on the physical plane.
This law can manifest your desires in many ways, sometimes obviously and directly, and sometimes in an indirect way, through various steps. Sometimes you might attain your goal in a sudden or miraculous way, and at other times slowly or indirectly, one thing leading to another. People might help you, a new job might come along, an idea might pop up in your mind, or you your intuition might tell you to follow a certain course of action. These are just a few of the many ways, through which this law can help you manifest your desires.

excerpt from http://www.successconsciousness.com
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I found these wonderful quotes about marriage on http://www.smartmarriages.com/

I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults.And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfectpeople got married and it was the promise that made the marriage.And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house thatprotected them; and it wasn't our love that protected them - it was thatpromise.

They say it takes a village to raise a child. That may be the case,but the truth is that it takes a lot of solid, stable marriages to create a village.Diane Sollee, smartmarriages.com

What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much howcompatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.Leo Tolstoy

The most important marriage skill is listening to your partner in a way thatthey can't possibly doubt that you love them.Diane Sollee, smartmarriages.com

One advantage of marriage, it seems to me, is that when you fallout of love with each other, it keeps you together until maybeyou fall in love again.Judith Viorst

Or, put another way, and 'borrowed' from Pittman:Why is it that people get married?Because we need a witness to our lives.There’s a billion people on the planet.What does any one life really mean?But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything…The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things,All of it… all the time, every day.You’re saying “Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it.Your life will not go unwitnessed - because I will be your witness.”Wife in the movie, "Shall We Dance?" 2004

Commitment has kind eyes. He wears sturdy shoes.Everything is vivid when he is around. It is wonderful to sitand have lunch in his gardens around harvest time. Youcan taste in the vegetables that the soil has been cared for.J. Ruth Gendler

Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship,is conversation.Oscar Wilde

When there is love in a marriage, there is harmony in the home; when there is harmony in the home, there is contentment in the community; when there is contentment in the community, there is propsertiy in the nation; when there is prosperity in the nation, there is peace in the world.Chinese proverb frequently quoted by David and Vera Mace
~ believe and speak your desires into existence....
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I picked up a copy of this book, 101 Things to do Before You Die, by Richard Horne about 2 years ago. I thought it was neat to have some tangible things to shoot for in this lifetime. I haven't even accomplished 10% of the suggestions (join the mile high club! :-)) but here are a few I'm working on and some I've added on my own....in no particular order here are some on my to do list..swim with dolphins, go up in a hot air balloon, sky dive!, stay in the best suite of a 5 star hotel, show my love for the creator through my actions EVERY DAY, run a marathon, spend christmas on the beach, see a space shuttle launch, see butterflies in costa rica, make a committment to mentor, drive cross country, go skinny dipping in puerto rico, get married at sunset on the beach, go horseback riding, karoeke, publish some of my writing, find happiness everywhere, believe i am the most beautiful girl in the world, learn a foreign language, become an interior designer, visit Europe, resolve issues with loved ones....just to name a few :-)
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Take care of yourself. Understand your body and how it relates to your mood swings and changes in behavior. Something as small as bcomplex and b6 vitamins can drastically change a down in the dumps mood to more of a spring in your step. Dong quai and evening primose rose oil are also great gifts from God to help with balancing your hormones and in turn your outlook on life. A great site to manage your PMS and cycle is http://www.mycycle.com/. It's a site that allows you to chart your periods, when you are ovulating and such. You can make notes on how you felt on certain days of your cycle and over time you can chart what days you are more likely to feel blue or cranky or have irrational fears. I've also found that eliminating certain foods from your diet during those days before your cycle will help keep you balanced. Instead of coffee, go for tea. Trade that declicious long island iced tea for.....iced herbal tea! Eat lots of fresh fruit and veggies, drink water, spray lavender essential oil around your home and even some on your temple. If you're aware of your body it will help you understand what's going on with you and create a more peaceful environment for all.......
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