I want to be remembered as a lady. I know what defines a lady is subjective but it's what I want people to remember me as. Someone who crossed her legs and sat straight up without thinking about it. Someone who wore dresses on a random Tuesday or Friday in December, March or June. Someone who cried when things made me happy and wasn't embarrased to cry when things made me sad. Someone who believed in appropriate behavior at the table (use your napkin, no belching or passing gas, use your cutlery). Someone who would send thank you cards frequently and seldom forgot a birthday. Someone who believed it was important to start the day with Goodmorning and end the day with Goodnight. Someone who smelled like lavender most times. There are probably a ton of things that I am forgetting or don't come to mind at the moment. But it's important that this is how my loved ones and family will remember me....