In no way am I the video vixen, Superhead. And by no means do I have what it takes to be on a XXX porn star but when you have a wonderful man in your life you may need to get out your red pumps, fishnets and alter ego...Hot Coffee!
I realize that the proper care and feeding of my husband comes in many forms. It's important for me to listen and communicate with him. It's necessary to rub his back and keep our home clean. He loves when I make his favorite dishes and attempt new ones; and we wouldn't have a marriage if I didn't respect him and trust him. But it's also important for me to care for him.....make sure he is well fed and nurtured sexually. Of course this is taboo for me to be writing about so brazenly on this blog but I think it's important. After all, you get married with the intention to spend the rest of your life with this person, right? So why not make and keep it interesting!
The men we marry and love should want for nothing sexually. I don't condone doing things that go against your moral principles and values but I do suggest breaking out of your comfort zone and keeping a smile on his face. He may enjoy looking at you as you undress after a long day of work...allow him that pleasure. Or he may fantasize about you with nothing but those black panties and a fresh pedicure....give him that fantasy.
Keep him seduced and longing. Let him know that you want him not because "you should" and "it's expected of you" but because you desire him. Take a class on fellatio if you're no good at it. Discover what kind of lingerie he likes and invest in it. Read a book on Kama Sutra or Tantric Sex and discover new ways of making love together.
I want my husband to feel just how safe and secure he makes me feel and one way I can do this is by making sure he feels safe and secure sexually. He doesn't have to beg; he shouldn't have to wait until "I feel like it." It shouldn't be a monthly chore just to get him off of my back. After all, I don't have to wait for him to tell me I'm pretty; I don't have to hope he'll help me with my son or around the home. I don't have to hope he'll provide, protect and be faithful to me. He does all of these things because he wants me to know that he loves me.
And I keep it sexy because I love him.
I realize that the proper care and feeding of my husband comes in many forms. It's important for me to listen and communicate with him. It's necessary to rub his back and keep our home clean. He loves when I make his favorite dishes and attempt new ones; and we wouldn't have a marriage if I didn't respect him and trust him. But it's also important for me to care for him.....make sure he is well fed and nurtured sexually. Of course this is taboo for me to be writing about so brazenly on this blog but I think it's important. After all, you get married with the intention to spend the rest of your life with this person, right? So why not make and keep it interesting!
The men we marry and love should want for nothing sexually. I don't condone doing things that go against your moral principles and values but I do suggest breaking out of your comfort zone and keeping a smile on his face. He may enjoy looking at you as you undress after a long day of work...allow him that pleasure. Or he may fantasize about you with nothing but those black panties and a fresh pedicure....give him that fantasy.
Keep him seduced and longing. Let him know that you want him not because "you should" and "it's expected of you" but because you desire him. Take a class on fellatio if you're no good at it. Discover what kind of lingerie he likes and invest in it. Read a book on Kama Sutra or Tantric Sex and discover new ways of making love together.
I want my husband to feel just how safe and secure he makes me feel and one way I can do this is by making sure he feels safe and secure sexually. He doesn't have to beg; he shouldn't have to wait until "I feel like it." It shouldn't be a monthly chore just to get him off of my back. After all, I don't have to wait for him to tell me I'm pretty; I don't have to hope he'll help me with my son or around the home. I don't have to hope he'll provide, protect and be faithful to me. He does all of these things because he wants me to know that he loves me.
And I keep it sexy because I love him.
Hot Coffee...lol, umm does your husband no you have an addiction
Absolutely! And feeds it regularly!